To Secret / Unhappy

If you're genuine about your concerns and want to have a proper discussion, then you'd be better off choosing a proper username. Using 'secret' and 'unhappy' suggests that you're either trying to hide something or deliberately trying to create an air of mystery to draw attention to yourself.

Let's face it, even if you join up you don't have to use your real name, you could just be something vague and random like 'HorshamFan'. I do think you'd be taken more seriously that way, and it would be a lot less melodramatic (whether it was intentional or not)

No offence by the way...!

Caroline