When Ben Andrews got booked ,he had simply asked the Ref about a decision without swearing or being curt .The Ref then pointed to various parts of the ground and said "thats your fourth"and booked him.Players generally chat with the Ref during games  for clarification on certain decisions.This guy obviously is unfriendly and we should remember him for the future and ignore him,ie,no reactions to any decisions therefore giving him no ammo to shoot us down.Difficult,I know.
Respect has to be earned in any walk of life-Nobody has a right to it because an F.A. slogan says so.